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June 2010

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Sex Trafficking in our nation's capital

From the corner outside my office building in downtown Washington, D.C., you can see three important landmarks. The first is the White House. The second is one of the most luxurious hotels in the city, where presidential candidates often host fundraisers and foreign dignitaries stay when they visit. The third is one of the most notorious corners for prostitution in the city, where children and human trafficking victims are often pimped against their will. And all this wealth, political power, and slavery happens within five square blocks of one another, in what may become the human trafficking capital of America.

Human trafficking has become a booming business in and around Washington, D.C. In the last few months alone, several pimps have been arrested for selling human trafficking victims in the D.C. suburbs of Southern Maryland. One man in D.C. pled guilty to human trafficking charges, after police found him selling his 12-year-old foster daughter for sex. A local restaurant owner admitted to exploiting a dozen migrant workers by severely underpaying them. And just last week, Virginia resident and World Bank economist Anne Bakilana narrowly avoided human trafficking charges, even though she admitted to not paying her domestic servant prevailing wages and threatening the servant with deportation. So why is human trafficking so prevalent in the capitol city of a country which just gave itself props for fighting it?

Human trafficking happens in Washington D.C. for the same reasons it happens elsewhere: supply and demand. Children, immigrants, and other vulnerable persons often become the supply of modern-day slaves. People who want dirt cheap domestic or restaurant labor or commercial sex with very young girls, they become the demand. But in the D.C. area, there are additional challenges to fighting human trafficking. Three different legal jurisdictions — Maryland, the District of Columbia, and Virginia — come together in an area small enough to walk across (I have). Maryland and Virginia have their own state laws, and D.C. follows a weird mix of “home-rule” local and federal regulations. These challenges make addressing human trafficking in the area extremely difficult.

That’s where the federal government (should) come in. If America is going to engage in self-congratulations on the great work it’s done combating human trafficking, it needs to focus on its own capitol city. Washington D.C., since it’s not a state, is at the mercy of the federal government for a number of resources. And those resources just aren’t there. Fighting the modern-day slavery which taking place just outside their place of business needs to be a top priority for the President and Congress. They need to declare that it is unacceptable for these abuses to be happening right in their own backyards (sometimes, quite literally).

Otherwise, Washington D.C. stands to become the human trafficking capitol of America, as well as the political one. - Amanda Kloer

I find it very hard to justify the United States touting the higher morality card to so many “developing” countries when we still problems dealing with our own moral ineptitudes

Jun 28, 2010
who gives $$ → mint.com

i tried to add the picture here, but the quality sucked. but check out the website!!! 

quick notes:

- it would take 14 italians to equal 1 american when it comes to charitable donations

- Wal-mart needs to start giving more out to the communities who give them $400 BILLION dollars; they only give 1% so far 

- public charities collect more than the american tax system 

- the average American family gives $2,000 a year

- if you make <$20,000 you are more likely to donate than someone who makes >$100,000

and when you do give, check out charity navigator to do a background check on your charity http://www.charitynavigator.org/

Jun 17, 2010
Officially Missing You - Tamia (cover) JS

Imagine China Walker and I singing - awesome roommate moment 

Gloria you better not steal my favorite song from me - China Walker

Jun 17, 2010
love deferred

I don’t remember the first time I read this poem, but I think I’ve grown up a little bit since then. It’s wonderful how poetry always grows on you - the opposite way of shoes and clothes. 

Plus my roommate China and I realized that we have similar music tastes - look for it on next post. 

A Love Deferred

What happens to a love deferred

Does it hide in a corner
Like a hibernating bear

Or is it a song stuck in your head
Of it’s existence are you never unaware

Is love a drug
Do you wake up needing them

Without love, is life just a shrug
When love is deferred, can you report a theft
Has your aching heart been stolen for all time

Does the spoken word mean nothing to a mime? 

Maya Reid

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has anyone else read Love in the Time of Cholera? Maybe I was too young when I read it but it was kind of depressing. 

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( . . . ) my mind after looking through all these tattoos → meupedeabobrinha.wordpress.com
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“To be fond of dancing was a certain step towards falling in love.” —

Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen (via fuckyeahliteraryquotes)

one of my favorite books

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love - by pablo neruda

There’s something about Pablo Neruda - I am convinced that if he were to write about something as commonplace as milk he would be able to drink in the words as milk were the only thing keeping me alive. 

So here is something I stumbled upon today. I don’t know its meaning because I don’t but it speaks something to me because he has a way where his words that seep in and work magic. Can you call poetry magic? maybe - I am. I hope you enjoy. 

Because of you, in gardens of blossoming flowers I ache from the
perfumes of spring.
   I have forgotten your face, I no longer remember your hands;
how did your lips feel on mine?
   Because of you, I love the white statues drowsing in the parks, 
the white statues that have neither voice nor sight.
   I have forgotten your voice, your happy voice; I have forgotten 
your eyes.
   Like a flower to its perfume, I am bound to my vague memory of
you. I live with pain that is like a wound; if you touch me, you will
do me irreparable harm.
   Your caresses enfold me, like climbing vines on melancholy walls.
   I have forgotten your love, yet I seem to glimpse you in every
window.
   Because of you, the heady perfumes of summer pain me; because
of you, I again seek out the signs that precipitate desires: shooting
stars, falling objects.

Jun 9, 2010
Border Patrol shoots and kills a 14-year old for throwing rocks

Wow - this is the American idea of security? The United States Border Patrol thinks that they are justified in critically shooting anyone (including children) who are a deadly threat to them. 

Let’s first examine the Declaration of Independence. Too much of a digression from this story? I think not - one deals with foreign relations with a country directly tangent to us and the other deals with the life spring of our current civilization. Both have to do with humans. 

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness

 You can interpret Creator as whomever you choose but the basic gist of this clause is that each man is given certain unalienable rights. You might argue that the patrolmen had the right to protect themselves - however, the action of shooting a fourteen year old child straight in the head, I would say, is an act of offense not of defense. Furthermore, we, Americans, become so angry when there are “terrorist” attacks in Israel, in Iraq, in Afghanistan - but how about these crimes against humanity that are done on our own soil? We have been so farsighted where we feel that we have the education and the wisdom to tell others how to act, whilst we cannot control the garbage in our own backyard. 

I am not saying that we should let every border-hopper into the U.S., I know that Mexico’s going a lot of turmoil because of all the drug cartel drama; however, I don’t think that shooting people really portrays the America that it was set out to be. Am I expecting too much from a group of people I barely know? 

I know the Border Patrol is there to protect us, but it’s still frustrating. 

story here

Jun 9, 2010
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Jun 9, 2010
YES! Duke connect me to Durham  → news.duke.edu

free bus from Trent Dr through downtown durham 

kind of inconvenient to start from Trent, but it’s better than nothing! 

Jun 9, 2010
the volunteer's bill of rights

Our generation has grown up being told that giving back and volunteering is a good thing. Some of us derive our satisfaction and purpose from living with a social angle knowing that all of our choices ripple into other people’s lives and therefore we must be smarter and more circumspect with our dollars. Okay - so with this in mind - it is really sad knowing that we don’t hold our non-profits, for-profit/not-for-profits, and for-profits with a social angle to a higher level of accountability.  We say yes - we will donate a dollar, yes we will buy this bag that will feed hungry children, yes we will give 20 hours of our lives for this cause, but we never question how effective and efficient these organizations are.  Why? It might be that we feel guilty about treating a non-profit the way a for-profit works because - why should we question the legitimacy of someone who’s doing good? Are we trying to dissuade them from continuing their work? They are probably doing more good than I am so - I have no right to criticize or to ask question. 

WRONG! Imagine how much money is wasted every year on inefficient bureaucracy! Billions of dollars have been pumped into revitalizing and sustaining the continent of Africa - however, most of its infrastructure is in the same state as it was in the 1960s.  We must demand accountability. Yesterday, I went to Whole Foods and they were selling these bags that say “FEED” on it - when you purchase one, you purchase it knowing that hungry children in Rwanda are being fed.  Seems like a good idea until my friend asked how much of $30 actually went to Rwanda - the breakdown the Whole Foods employee gave us was ridiculous. $15 went to Rwanda, but the other $15 went into manufacturing. That to me is total bullshit. Why? Because #1 this company, if they really wanted to help Rwanda, should hire locally and keep all the money in that economy. #2 - I personally know that it does not costs $15 to manufacture (if indeed they are already producing in Rwanda). #3 - it’s not sustainable or empowering meaning that even though they’re feeding 100 kids with $15, they are not teaching them how to fish. Yeah - they’re fulfilling their mission of feeding children, but they are merely treating the symptoms of a deeper root cause. 

Okay - so with all this in mind - here is the Volunteer Bill of Rights created by the DC Central Kitchen (really cool organization run by awesome Robert Egger) 

  • Work in a safe environment 
  • Be treated with respect by all staff members 
  • Be engaged in meaningful work and be actively included regardless of any physical limitations
  • Be told what impact your work made in the community 
  • Ask any staff member any question about their work 
  • Provide feedback about your experience 
  • Receive a copy of their organization’s financial information or annual report upon request 

I’ve never thought about it, but it’s pretty important to qualify a non-profit/volunteer organization by these standards. Stand up for your rights - know how you’re going to make a difference - don’t settle for mediocrity. 

Jun 9, 2010
National Block-Party

I personally don’t know any of my neighbors. Okay - so I know how much their house costs (in comparison to my family’s), I know what kind of cars they drive, who their kids are (if they still live at home), and a rough guess at what their nationality is.  However, aside from that I don’t know my neighbors. Therefore, this idea of having a National Night Out - is a good thing. 

My neighborhood association put on a block party two years ago - my parents went but I did not. Apparently, it was really awkward because as natural suburbans we like living in our own space - we did not sign up to diverge circles with another family or a another group of human beings. However, we are social creatures; we like being acknowledged by people - even if we don’t personally like them them back.  But imagine what a united community could do that millions of dollars would not - let us look at the numbers. 

Fullerton (my home city) 

  • has a crime index of 20- meaning that it is only 20% safer than the rest of the United States

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  • There are 15 drug and alcohol abuse facilities in Fullerton alone. 

That’s just a small picture of Fullerton - and I’m not saying that Fullerton is going to hell or whatever. I just think that it would be very rad if communities came together and said that they were going to say no to crime, no to teenagers thinking that they have no one else to turn to, no to prejudice and racism, and no to being alone. 

national block party link here

Jun 9, 2010
why are people so stupid?  → forkparty.com

at least they make us laugh

Jun 8, 2010
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Jun 8, 2010
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